Letting go has never been easy. But often letting go is the only option to survive.
Normally when we do let go, we feel an acute sense of guilt – For no reason. However believe me it is only temporary and time will heal it.
Why would you want to let go ?
Every day you will come across people and issues that will give you only stress and nothing more. If you stop to think about them you will realise that there is no “solving” them. There is no recourse that will lead to happiness in these people or issues. These are the ones to let go.
There will be useless “problems” , illogical issues, fake and selfish friends, backstabbing colleagues / classmates etc where we find ourselves involved due to the simple sincerity of thought and honorable purpose. But really ? Is it worth it?
Be happy my friends and let go of your individual poison that is leaching onto you and draining your positive energy.
Let’s be clear on this. Life is not easy and it’s not a fairytale. One rarely gets a choice in the issues we get to tackle. So, in the challenges you do get, reconsider the importance of that challenge in your life or the life of your loved ones… then maybe its worth it. The issues or people may be a mix of fortune and misfortune and you can decide which one is more important based on logical arguments.
Then, there are others which we choose to keep in order to torture our own selves 🙂 Yes, I would say it’s our choice when we do this.
So there are 2 options:
- Let go and carry on with the positive life
- Try to handle it while keeping your own sanity and happiness intact.
My next post will be on how we can accomplish number 2 🙂
Till then – Be Happy !